good...but not too worry about it...I don't want you to take stress...I'm sure you are good and clean...
I found out to remove somebody compeletly off from my brain is by stop any kind of communications with that person...I usually turn off my instant messengers and stop going to the places that that person goes and stop even contact with common friends...I know it's brutal, but this is the way I disconnect...and it works pretty good....
It's really funny...but now, I don't login to both gmail and yahoo instant messengers...because I have another guy who was playing with me for over 5 months and chatting with on yahoo...I don't want to have any contact with him....and gmail is Aaron....probably, this way is better for me...chatting was taking too much of my time....
one more thing I want to add....You should know that you can't change anybody's behaviour towards you, but you can change your own thoughts and behaviour....so, telling him that you are human being and why he treated you poorly is not going to work at all...

with love
marjan