simple answer ... a bad boy whos good, a good boy whos bad, a night time boy whos day, a daytime boy whos night, a rich boy whos thinks poor, a poor boy whos thinks rich, a great looking guy to show off, a ugly boy so no one can steal him, in other words hint hint they want something they cant have .. or is it something that doesnt excist.

so the answer to find the right women .. find her by acident like i did with my wife. It worked great.