once again, i'm the guy in question. Gagirlpc is talking about two situations. One was an im sent to my friends grilfriend asking how he was doing because he was sick, she was in town for the weekend (she stays in cali) and he was not answering the phone. The second was a friend i have know since grade school, whom i found on facebook. Shes married with children. She and i went to church together as kids and we were just catching up. I have never given my girl a reason to doubt me. I take very good care of her, (diamonds, money, place to live, what ever she wants she get) but for some reason she still does not trust me. She had a very bad relationship before ours and has never been able to trully trust me. She judges me based on her past. And to top it all off, she cheated on me with my friend. I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON HER! But for some reason she wants to trip on my internet use. Not to mention, all these site i use, (this one, facebook and so on) i got from her. She uses them to, just as much!