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Originally Posted by NLD1179
Yes I will take your advice and stop going to places we used to go. I feel good though since I told him that. Well I knew that from the begginning. I figured that out that I can't change him, but wanted him to know that I am human being with feelings and that he shouldn't have mistreated me that way. I had to let him know how disrespectful he was even if he didn't realize it. My closure I suppose, but I felt good saying the words "LOSE MY NUMBER and DON'T EVER CALL ME AGAIN"! Also, I won't stress, I just rather be safe than sorry another test will not hurt:-) Thanks for your advice Marjan!
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no problem my dear....I can see your positive attitude and all it is important is you...how you feel towards the situation and what you said....
you are very young and you will forget about this jerk very quickly....there are so many other good guys out there that we don't usually pay attention to them....You know what strategy I'm taking for myself...I'm going to just make friendship with guys...if I stay friend for a month or so, then I can figure out which type of person he is, then I can go from there....but players and jerks usually don't let you to have that time, because they know they can't make it to the next level, so they usually make the move very quickly at the beginning of knowing you....then eyes are very important, they said "eyes are the window to person's mind" and that's true...from guy's eye you can find out which type of person he is....I want kind and generous person...I think I can figure out with their eyes....besides we don't have to fool ourselves by thinking they would change...they would never ever change!
good luck
Marjan