Hi my name is Micki and my BF is Danny. he is my 1st real relationship and he has 2 kids from 2 previous relationships. I have been with him for 6 years. We have MANY trust issues! Stemming mostly from infidelity and insecurity. I have cheated on him for many reasons to include: his infidelity, his constant need for his ex, his inability to be strong, his inability to acknowledge the very existence of our relationship. For a while (2 1/2 years) Our relationship was unknown to his ex! We were "just friends". So my issue is: How can we move past our past screw-ups and move forward since it seems like at least once a day he claims to have those "infeidelity" thoughts run through his mind; to the point where he cannot FUNCTION! It is a CONSTANT rollercoaster ride with his behavior, moods and reactions. I feel like I am WALKING on egg shells with EVERYTHING I DO! I don't knwo what to recommend or even go from here?? he is not working because he states "I can't go to work worrying about where you are at or who you are talking to". I can't even see my family as much because he thinks there is ALWAYS someone trying to hook up with me. this relationship is to VERY complicated in EVERY sense if the word! I can't even briefly decribe what we go through. However, we ALWAYS end up in each other's arms. We have a GREAT UNDENIABLE LOVE and attraction to one another. PLEASE HELP ME!! I want to be with him, however I want US to be HAPPY and able to move on from past issues, on both sides.

Thank you,
Micki