So you should be confused. You told him how you feel about his behavour and he didn't listen. Then you said the three words "It is over!" Something like If you don't change I'll dumb you. The thing is love is not saying stuff mean to one another. I do believe you when you don't normally start the fights. But he shouldn't leave you if you start crying. If he cried that you might dumb him then maybe he knows and should get something like angermagerment or relationship conselling if he said he's going to change, he can't do it on his own? Please don't let his words stop you. He said he will change that's it. If he says anything mean and hurtful and actually meant it, thats it you know where you stand! semi long distance relationship are hard all relationships are you've both got to work with eachother to make it better. Right at the moment you are in the persistion lucky that what you say goes! But for how long? Think of getting pofessonal relationships surport. He nearly came close to hitting you and that is a sign that he maybe can't control his anger or temper. Don't stay behind close doors make a run for it if anything else happens that is bad! Safe hug... {{{{{{confused1234}}}}}}