[quote=blackdragon;1102541]His mom gets mad at him for trying to make it on his own. Literally since when he moved back up there his cell phone got tooken away for fear that he will run from his mom. I got my info from a recent email.

Very tough situation, Blackdragon, and I'm sorry you are going through it.

Was the information in an email from him?
A trusted friend?
Is it possible he couldn't afford one? Can you call him on the land line if his mother has one?

Jmo, but if it is true that she took it away, perhaps it's possible he is having some problems that are not related to his relationship with you.

I feel hurt by what she has said about me saying im brainwashing him.
I can imagine how much it hurt you, and I'm so sorry.

Did she say this directly to you?
Isn't there some way the three of you could sit down and talk about this situation?

I guess im not good enough for him. I am just going to leave him alone and as for this baby im just giving it up for adoption
Blackdragon, your worth has nothing to do with him or his mother. You are a worth while human being and deserve to be shown courtesy and respect.
He has responsibilities towards this child...

Are you in the care of an Obstetrician, or perhaps a general clinic?
Whichever one, please ask for assistance. You can be referred for counseling that will help you make a decision...
You also need to know your legal rights; one of them being if he has any chance of stopping the adoption. In some states, the father has to sign off on the adoption also.

Im not mother material anyway. Plus this child deserves to have a mom and a dad.
I admire your honesty, Blackdragon, in thinking about the baby.
Please seek counseling before you make a final decision.
You are very hurt and disappointed right now, and it may make it harder to make a decision.

My very best wishes,
Catherine