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Originally Posted by marjan
no problem my dear....I can see your positive attitude and all it is important is you...how you feel towards the situation and what you said....
you are very young and you will forget about this jerk very quickly....there are so many other good guys out there that we don't usually pay attention to them....You know what strategy I'm taking for myself...I'm going to just make friendship with guys...if I stay friend for a month or so, then I can figure out which type of person he is, then I can go from there....but players and jerks usually don't let you to have that time, because they know they can't make it to the next level, so they usually make the move very quickly at the beginning of knowing you....then eyes are very important, they said "eyes are the window to person's mind" and that's true...from guy's eye you can find out which type of person he is....I want kind and generous person...I think I can figure out with their eyes....besides we don't have to fool ourselves by thinking they would change...they would never ever change!
good luck
Marjan
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Oooo You are so right about trying to be friends for about a month first to see where things go from there. I was thinking three months. Thats usually when I see the true colors to be honest. You are right jerks usually move and thats pretty much what happened with the last two guys I dated. Wow interesting observation and its so true. Yes I want someone that will respect me for who I am and treat me the way I should be treated. However, I have to start respecting myself more and realiziing I deserve better as well. It starts with me first.