its really hard to say what his issues are without knowing his background. It sound like hes young and not sure if he wants to be in a relationship, but yet still loves you. Thats very common with young men. The not going out thing, well thats common among guys from the hood (i don't know if he is), but i don't like to go out alot, and my girl trips just like you, but some men are like that and some are not. You need to decide if you happy in the relationship. if you are your gonna have to accept him for who he is, if you not try to move on. i hope this helped!