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Old Aug 10, 2009, 08:42 PM
eemapq eemapq is offline
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Dearest fibrorobin,

First of all. At least your husband was honest with you. I understand that it is not easy to hear or to deal with. I was with a guy for almost 6 years and found out the hard way that he was gay. He now has custody of our 9 year old daughter. To my knowledge she does not know and he doesn't have men over when he has her. I want you to listen to me and take these words to your !! IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!! YOU DID NOT CAUSE THIS!!! I struggled for a little over a year wondering where I went wrong and what my problem was for my partner to turn gay on me. I then relized that it had NOTHING to do with me. He has always been this way. He will not change. He is struggling with what he is and having me around made him look normal. The things he wanted to do in the bedroom were beyond normal. I was young and didn't understand that they were not normal. He was my first consented sexual partner and with that came my first child. Just hang in there and always remember NO MATTER WHAT YOU ARE LOVED!!!!