Thanks so much for replying. I am so sorry that it took me so long to write you back. You are so right. The only answer is to get out. I broke up with him, but he still remains to hold on to me no matter what I say. A few nights ago he said that I he is not scared of my mother and he is not scared of my brother. He said the only people who could stop him from coming to see me is the police. He said he is coming over and I can call the police if I want to and he said that he would tell them how much he loves me. He came over my house after I told him not to. After all of this I sometimes find myself running back to him. I can't! I need to be strong enough to ignore him and his phone calls. I am keeping record in a journal. Sometimes it scares me of how he is going to act next towards me. I am sorry about your situation, but I am glad that you got out of it. I need to let him know that I am not scared of him anymore and I am going to let him know that I am serious. I am not going to be Miss Nice anymore. I am tired of being walked over by him and not taken seriously. That is all going to change. You are right! He is going to have no choice, but to leave me alone because I know that he doesn't want to end up back in jail. What he does need is help. Thanks alot for all your advice and I hope to hear from you soon.