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Originally Posted by jacq10
... the only problem was SHE was the adult, and she shouldn't have made all these promises she didn't intend on keeping. It was part of her job and responsibility not to breach boundaries with people, and if that happened (which in our case it did) then she should have realised it, instead of turning it around on my so I wind up feeling as though everything is my fault.
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I seem to remember reading that you sometimes work with kids. I don't know if making promises (or not) or overextending yourself (or not) are issues for you there, but by any chance are you thinking that you'd be better off now if you'd had a better role model back then?
I was thinking that if push came to shove, you might be able to invent the role yourself, even better than she'd taught it to you.
