Artist...you pointed out some good points as well Yes...I can imagine a woman losing her husband due to a heart attack has some definate fears in the situation you are describing. As i said she was very much taken with you as well...just seems like "something" happened there. The things you are pointing out could definately be that something.

I'm glad you found this place to. I've found it extremely helpful and there are some really wondeful people here.

Again welcome and take care
Eva