Hi, I am sorry you are having these issues. The bottom line is you need to be happy, that is all it is. If you feel stressed out, unappreciated, not loved or used, then it's no good, be by yourself. He sounds like he doesnt know what he wants, and if it isnt you, then you have to move on. All relationships take hard work and you BOTH have to work at them, if you really think he is worth it, then you need to sit down and communicate that, if he hesitates in any way, then you need to move on... life is way to short to be feeling unloved, good luck, i will send good thoughts your way!