i think that was my point! that we all control our own futures.
the past forms a part of who we are but it doesn't have to define who we are.
we all do things we regret but what can do you do about it? nothing. you cant change the past. you cean learn from it and choose to try and move on. i'm not saying it's easy but what other choice do you have? Let the past ruin your present / future?