((((9ashley8787)))) Therapy is probably a good idea but for it to help both parties have to be truly honest. I also agree with Rohag crime has more than just one victim. Looking around the web and seeing what you can find is a good idea. I also agree with lotusflames cost should not be a factor, if one of you had to be rushed to the hospital for anything else there would be no thought of the cost. Good luck - hugs for your day.