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Originally Posted by loser37
I feel like i will be alone for the rest of my life and that is my biggest fear of all i know i will be alone someday because i can not trust anyone especiaally strangers because of borderline and i try to not think if someone likes me is only because they want something from me
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Babe, you will not be alone for the rest of your life.......things are always in flux, NOTHING ever stays the same even if you don't notice it.......basic physics
There is no evidence that you will be alone forever as we cannot accurately predict the future......concentrate on yourself, in loving and living. The other stuff is icing on the cake. Once you know how you feel about yourself, all the rest will follow and you will have people in your life that DESERVE you.....
If you are getting help through the wild terrain of BPD, then change will happen.......you will become more trusting, more loving and more peaceful.
Be infinitely forgiving of yourself, tell yourself that you feel this way but do not judge it and do not act on it, just observe it. All things change.......and rebirth is never easy.......You are loved, you are cared for and we are here.
Look at this way........if you did not question, there would be no motivation.......you are healing. It means you CARE
Take good care, sweets and be very precious with yourself.......there is only one.....

