I think you did a very nice thing sending her the flowers. You are demonstrating goodwill toward her and I find that admirable especially considering your feelings. And, you obviously work hard in therapy. I think your feelings will change toward her as you continue to do nice things for her. I don't mean you have to send her flowers every day. My feelings have changed towards some new family members over the years. Sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse. But I try to remember that we all have faults and so do all of my family members and myself. We all have something that we may have to work on a little harder.

Have you tried just having some little conversations with her? When I did that with some of my family I saw them in a different light. Your feelings will probably change toward her. I think there's lots of hope for you. You also are honest about what's going on. Take care and hope you keep us updated. CQ

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<font color=purple>"When one door of happiness closes, another one opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened to us." Helen Keller</font color=purple>