Hi holy %#@&#! I am sorry..This seems like it would be illegal or unethical or something. Can you call your local DSS and get some names..maybe even low cost? I am new and not the best one to give you help I am sure someone with more info will post soon but this is WRONG. I am so sorry this was done to you and you have a lot of things going on. God bless you and your son I am just very sorry.