Well, after all of the mess I went through. I decided to give online dating a try. I was really afraid of it and embarassed. I used to feel like if I have to go to online dating, that I am desperate. However, I have realized its just another way to meet men, besides a bar/club. So, I have had one date so far, but when I met him in person there was no connection. He seems to be a homebody, and I am a very outgoing person. Otherwise nice guy. I have since then met someone else off of the site and the conversation and interestes seem to be in tact....We haven't met yet in person though. So we will see what happens with him. Also, old flames have been calling me now. Its like when one relationship fails they all get a signal and start calling. However, something registered they are old flames for a reason, right?? One of my old flames, I really thought he was the one, but again as I got to know him, he was non-romantic, not willng to compromise, boring, homebody. I know that If I stayed I would be miserable. However, I am hopeful that I will meet someone special one day. Good Luck with your meetup NuckingFutz! I will keep you posted on my romance train:-)