Hello everyone,

I've been with my fiancé for a little over four years. We are both 26 yrs. old. Lately (for the past few moths) she has been less than interested in sex, or sleeping in the same bed. She is oversleeping, and rarely gets to work on-time anymore. She is an actress, but has not been going to auditions, lately. She even stopped hanging out with her long-time friends,in favor of younger girls (10 8-21 r. olds). We don't talk anymore. In fact, she would rather be silent or leave our home, than to speak. She even avoids eye contact with me.

I'm fed up. But I love her, and I don't want to leave her. I think that she needs me now, perhaps more than ever. I'm really afraid because she says things like; "I don't care about anything" and "I don't feel anything" if I ask her opinion about something. She refuses to get help, and says that she is not ready to face her problems.

I mentioned my feelings to one of her best friends, who made me aware that she had seen a psychiatrist before. He told her that she was in a deep depression and wanted to write her a scrib. She never went back. This was the first time I heard this information.

Her father passed last October, but she seemed fine until a few months ago. Please give me some insight.

Thanks