Yeah I have a terrible time with decisions at times, even ones that are really really not that important. Then with important ones I often make a decision by not making a decision...which is really what amounts to a decision on its own lol.

But really I feel your pain and though I'm not there with practicing it all the time, what comes to mind is that you have to be willing to accept that it may have consequences you can't predict and won't like, whatever you choose. But it may also have ones you couldn't have predicted and are glad for. And just basically you'll never know all the future consequences for certain and if you expect any kind of certainty, you'll be disappointed.

Yeah I said all that but it's still hard to accept. I want to know where this or that choice would lead, but really there are all kinds of other people and factors involved in most big ones, and uncertainty is a part of moment to moment life.