Yow...my goodness. Sunny I don;t know if I would ever be strong enough to bring this one up with my T but it seems that you will have to, at some point, or the whole relationship could founder. When a client is being careful not to say anything to rock the boat, where is the absolutely basic safety of that room, and of that relationship, where whatever needs to come out, can come out? Why would you continue to go there?!

Your posts show you to be so well reasoned, and yes strong, and you and yr T have worked so well together in past. I hope that you two will be able to work this one out. Ouch!!