The same friend that has a stereotypical attitude about spanish people and white people regarding work ethic also has a 14 yr old daughter who has been friends with my 13 yr old son since they were babies. They go to school together. We walk at night together as well and the kids go. Her mom and new step-dad (this is step-dad #4 who just got out of prison) do not let their daughter talk to boys at all and most of the time she is not allowed to come out of the house to hang out with all the kids because they don't want her around boys. Last night we got back from walk and my son, another boy, and their daughter were talking about school because they just registered and her mom and dad told my son and the other boy to get away from their daughter. This is so freaking weird. How is the girl ever going to develop social skills? And it offends me that she does not want my son around her daughter. All the kids in the neighborhood come to my house because I have an amusement park in my backyard practically and I also have the video games and so my house is always full. They have eaten dinner with us and her girls have come over to play video games and now she has made the comment that she doesn't want her girls in my house because I have boys. The way she talks, you would think my boys were going to attack her girls or something. My 13 yr old doesn't even like the girl in that way, he thinks of her as a sister bc they have grown up together. How can she be so freaked out about boys hanging around her girls when she has had 4 live in boyfriends (2 who were in prison) live in her house with her two girls in the last8 years? Should I drop this friendship?
Seriously offended mom
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