((((modelcarguy))))

I am so sorry for what you are going through. I know how it hurts and makes you feel. But all women are not like that. It was not right what she did. I know it hurt you. I was married for 18 years. I went into treatment and while there received divorce papers from my ex-husband. He took everything----the house, the cars, our children, and my belief that marriage is for better or worse--until death do us part.

I know the pain you are feeling and the betrayel----but you are not alone. I had a hard time trusting a man again for years. I still have fear. But it can get better. There is someone out there for you that will love you and not take from you. Sometimes it takes a long time to find that person. Please do not give up. And even though I understand where you are coming from----try not to lump all women in that bad catagory.

We do care and are glad that you posted. I know you are feeling pretty used and abused and you have the right to your feelings. What she did was mean and wrong. I am sorry this happened to you. I hope things will get better for you. Give it some time.

Until then, please keep posting and let us know how you are. Sending you gentle hugs if that is okay. Take care of yourself.

dps