Sunny,

To me it sounds like because your T relationship is so close you both experience some of the same complexities in the relationship that really close friend have. The two of you know each other enough to make assumptions,ocasionally finish another sentences and accidentally say things that are reactionary. Most of us don't have these trip ups because our T tend to keep the therapeutic relationship on a different level. Its always seemed to me like your T relationship is operating on a different level--more like RL. I think your relationship is therapeutic in this way and that maybe dealing this this deeper type of exchange is where your at and what you need.