I just recently did a late spring cleaning on my apartment and got rid of the homeless guy living on my couch. I am also going to individual therapy as part of my treatment since i am still on suiside watch under the va program. The objective is to get more stable. Friday night i come to a county mental health worker asking me if my neighbor can stay with me for 48 hours because her apartment flooded. I like to help people but this whole situation sucks. My apartment is once again a mess with dirty dishes on my coffee table and grape jelly smears on my dining room table and the kitchen is a complete shambles. Her 2 cats cry all night long and have fleas which can spread to my cats. I am tired of fetching stuff for her. It is hard for her to walk. Although she use to be of normal size she told me after her 5th husband was gone she started gaining weight. She is now over 320 lbs and can cook meals she just cannot clean. I am usually more compassionate but i am trying hard to focus on getting better. Help!