Seeker, I do think about the possibility of being perceived a stalker so i have not had any contact since last Thursday. i had to run some errands today and it would have been a short hop off the freeway to just drive by her place.I resisted.I also saw a really nice bouquet of flowers and thought how much she would love them. I didn't buy the flowers. I did see that she had logged onto match.com and that really ripped my gut out. She has every right to do whatever she wants. But seeing that she had been on line looking really hurt .