Update...okay i did the dishes and made noise and she started balling...so i went and called the red cross who called the cops for a wellness visit?! She went back to her own place to give me some space. Meanwhile the crackhead apparently blamed his recent disappearance on me. I got a call from his crackhead girlfriend. I told her i have no emotional interest in either of them and that i will not answer their calls or see them or have contact with either of them. She said okay. This has been one heck of a weekend! I hate stress! I am going to take a klonopin.