jmo531 when someone you use to love turns your back on you and the rest of your family, then you know he's not worth it! How ever all that pain he gave you all you had to do was set it free. As like its was nothing compared to your love for your kids. Any way I hope he knows what he has done and that those was his mistakes. Your daugthers said I don't know maybe because they did understand but didn't know how to react to the sitituation if only found out so soon. You felt numb as this guy made you feel that way. You know were you stand and still keep it that way jmo531 you were very brave facing him one last time.