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Originally Posted by neednewlife
Marjan, i have gone through that, don't hate yourself. I myself am trying to emotionally detach from my husbqand, bad thing is we stilll live together, in seperate bedrooms, floors of course, but it is still hard. It's so important for your own well-being to force yourself to be with others. Get support out there and take it one day at a time, for me it's one minute at a time. It's so easy for people to say let him go...but we must do that. Go to therapy, church or something to help you emotionally detach. You are better off without him and i know it must be lonely. Take the time and look within to make yourself happy. I am pulling for you!!!
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Thanks for your kind words....I think I'm getting better by time....I'm not going to the places that he goes and I'm not going to the dance class either....that was bothering me the most, but I found out I can't move on if I keep dancing with him and seeing him....I found another dance studio and tonight I'm going there...I have good feelings about it...I met some girls and guys who are going there and they look so decent and I could connect with them better....I went dancing last night, I love it....and I was happy that he's not there....I have to take him off from my system completely....I'm not going to login to facebook either....I got to stop hurting myself and stop him for taking my happiness away from me....
I have lots of things to do in my mind....and I'm going to do them one by one....I'm better off without him and his friends....
I was thinking to go dating again....and I signed up for online dating....but I'm not ready at all...I can't force myself....It's better I stay single and accept it....I need good friends in my life....not shallow people that he has around him....When he met me, he told me he was happy because he found a girl that he could talk to!!!!! wow....and he was going out dancing with these girls for over a year and no connection with any of them!!!!!
What is bothering me is my own thought process....I know if I can control it, I'm living in peace....
thanks again....
Marjan