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Dwayne61 · 12:28 PM

Thanks, scotlandskye. You did help giving me your opinion and letting me know that I'm not alone.

I’ve written her letters and notes in the past in an attempt to get her to contact me. From what I recall, she didn’t respond very much. Also, from what I recall, my stress level went up after I sent the letters obsessing about whether she would call.

It's getting to the point that whenever I start thinking/obsessing about her, I scream silently to myself: "I've had enough!" In one way, it seems that it would be so much better if I would just do whatever is needed to be done to put her out of my mind. But there's the "what ifs". What if she is waiting for me to call her?? But if I don't call her and we could've resumed our friendship, what's the worst that could happen? Would it be all my fault that we're no longer friends? As far as I know, I have nothing left to apologize for. There was one time when we had a misunderstanding. I didn't think we were friends any more & when I talked to her, she thought I didn't want to be friends.

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Originally Posted by scotlandskye

I wish I had answers for you, but I don't. I can tell you that you are not alone!! going through something similar myself. It isn't easy, but you do have to protect yourself. I am with the others that suggested a note or email. state what you think and feel. you can look at it as a way of protecting yourself!

(((((Hugs)))) I know I didn't help, but wanted to let you know that it isn't easy and that you are not alone!