Hi TPND,
sorry it took me so long to catch up with you in this new thread.
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Originally Posted by ThePainNeverDies
He asked me to not let it ruin our friendship, but he's got some trust building to do if he thinks he's staying at mine again.
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I'm picking up a lot of tension in how you responded to him, as if you both did and didn't want to hurt him. On the one hand he violated your boundaries, disrespected you and wouldn't take no for an answer, and you considered at least the possibility of kicking him where it would hurt the most. On the other hand, you haven't thrown him completely out of your life and you're still leaving the possibility of trust-building open.
I'm not up to spelling out what I think all that says about you. Let me just say I'm impressed.