I think I understand better now what you meant. Maybe it's the difference between "wanting" and "appreciating". You can know it's there and value its beauty without possessing it.
Maybe Sky meant that we need to accept that our therapists are human beings too...just like us.
Therapists have weaknesses and strengths too. They have fears and doubts. They make mistakes. They can't always meet our needs. And we shouldn't always expect them to. They may help show us the way, but eventually we have to take the steps on our own. Once we recognize our Ts as human, then we'll know they can't ever be "super-human". It still can be a very special connection. We just have to keep perspective and accept its limitations and eventual finality. Something like that...
Last edited by Brightheart; Aug 17, 2009 at 04:42 PM.
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