{{{{{{{{{Tomi}}}}}}}}}
I had to jump in here....your heart hardening? Did I read that right?

I have known you for almost a year now and to tell you the truth...if anything, I noticed that your heart is more open than it was when I first met you. You have more compassion than you give yourself credit for. You have changed and it is for the better....not like you were a meanie when I first met you

....but you have softened in a nice way.
Give yourself some credit ok hun? You deserve it for all of the hard work you are doing.

Heather
"The Pessimist complains about the wind, the Optimist expects it to change and the REALIST adjusts his sails." ~~~author unknown