Thread: i just can't do it anymore
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Old Aug 18, 2009, 07:32 AM
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I think you are right, he has the problem. Staying with someone who is that down on you all the time is not good for your self esteem or your mental health. If he refuses to go to marriage counseling with you, he's refusing to work on your marriage relationship to keep it alive, happy and growing. ALL RELATIONSHIPS TAKE WORK. If he doesn't want to take his responsibility for the relationship, then you don't really have a marriage. I'm sorry you have put up with this for so long, but it's good you are beginning to see what (who) the real problem is.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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Thanks for this!
thunderbear