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Old Aug 18, 2009, 07:43 AM
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I think it depends on the people involved. And I think that the months or year just following a relationship can be problematic for at least one of the people involved. (If you have children that's another story entirely.) But if not, a break for a while after the split is probably a good idea. After emotions have cooled down and both people have time to reflect on the relationship THEN maybe it's possible to be friends.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."