It is this very reply and Muffys as well that make it all worth while.......the gems of advice that resonate soundly with me......energy creates heat in some instances and that is what I achieved in reading these replies........despite my warmth as a human being, the fires need to be stoked by some well meaning and truthful statements with heartfelt clarity.....

Thank you, thank you, thank you.......I feel a bit teary.......that is good!! I was a little lost and now I am a little found.....

Big warm hugs to you Nowheretorun and Muffy.......thank you for your support through this wild terrain.....

Michah