I got a call from the crackhead's girlfriend last night. She was really upset with her crackhead. Said she didn't feel safe. Told her to come over...big mistake...big!
Things were fine until he showed up around 3:00 am this morning. I told his girlfriend to go in the bathroom and lock the door. She left her keys on the coffee table and he saw them. So I told her to come out that he knew she was there. I can't believe I got in the middle of that. I should have never answered the door. Nothing happened but they went outside to talk. Respectively, they both tell me they don't want the relationship.
Lesson learned, don't try and help someone who really isn't ready to do anything. Don't waste your time on these people, they argue then they leave without a word.
I don't want this drama, I just though I was helping the girlfriend because she told me about an incident of violence and was scared he would do it again.
I spent a lot of time with her yesterday making sure she was safe and that she had someone to talk to. I think it was a big waste of time now.
I think on my phone I have a block call feature. I think I am going to use with both of their phones. I don't need the drama and I really did thing I was trying to help the girlfriend.
I know I made a mistake in letting the girlfriend come over because I was up most of the night. I have therapy later this afternoon. I will be embarassed to tell t what I did because I have enough drama already. I got rid of the neighbor so that worked out.
Has anyone else been nieve enough to get involved in something like this?
I think it would be best to block both their calls because they waste their time when they complain about the other's behavior and then turn around and like just leave.
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