Hello, I have a similar problem I don't undertand it. either. I go through long dry spells with no women in my life. Ok I masturbate Maybe that might have had somethign to do my inability to maintain an erection and penetrate., If I do I can't ejaculate.

I was on a lot of SSI meds. That might have had something to do with my problem. It might be a medical problem. I hald polpys removbed one time. I went through a lot of emotional abuse in my life and that might have greatly affected self confidence and ability to perform I dunno.

I can't speak for your husband. I would try to encourage him to see a doctor. He might have a medical condition.

I sincerely hope you can work out your problems without going through a divorce. Good luck.