ooops just missed this post {{{{{{{{{{{{{vette}}}}}}}}}}} sorry about that
Was that the first time you saw her since you split up?
hmmmm I am still thinking that you are backing off from a good friend who is in your corner right now. If you are having some doubt...talk to her....let her know what you are feeling right now and see what she says? You won't know until you ask right?

Heather
"The Pessimist complains about the wind, the Optimist expects it to change and the REALIST adjusts his sails." ~~~author unknown