Thanks everyone. I appreciate all the comments and suggestions. I talked to him the other night and said I wasn't trying to pressure or force anything, I was just wondering where it was going and he said he was planning on it but I guess the times he had been flaky were when he was getting into it with his roommate and was just angry. (his roommate is the biggest reason why this is getting pushed early).

So yeah, we talked about it. I told him that I still want my space and it works perfectly because he has to spend the next 3 months finishing his thesis so he will be in his office a lot working on that and I will still get my time. We have talked about still keeping the "girls night" and "boys night" type of thing so for right now it seems to be working out really well.

Ill post updates! Thanks again everyone!