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Old Aug 19, 2009, 05:26 PM
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((((Thunderbear)))))) what your mom did for you, how she loved and supported you? That's what your husband should be doing for you. If he comes home and gets mad because of something you did or didn't do, suggest to him that you are doing the best you can and he can always change the things he doesn't like by doing them himself. He is an adult who can choose to change the things he can - himself and his actions & attitude. Dealing with depression is a full time job, let him know that. If he can't validate your feelings then I would stop going to a stone for water. It's not your fault the stone can't give you water.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."