Thunderbear I'm so sorry. Your aunts' are something else. They have some nerve saying crap like that to you when your baby was so sick. Personally I wouldn't want to be around them if they want to act like that. That is really low. I also haven't spoken to my family in a couple of years. They have some issues that I just can't stand to be around. The farther they are away from me, the happier I am. It might sound mean, but it's the truth. I can make my own self feel like crap. I certainly don't need their help with that.