Thanks, jerrymichele. Would you have any suggestions about setting up boundaries? That's something that I'm not very good at doing. I know one thing that I done wrong. Just about everything that I done revolved around her. I'm not saying that she expected that, I don't think she did. It's just that I got so wrapped up in wanting to be with her. I know we were just friends, but that's something that's hard to come by for me. Especially female friends.

I wanted to do things with her so much that I paid for most everything when we went out to eat, the movies, etc. I knew that she didn't have any money. It took a while to get her disability started. But although it was my idea to do these things and knowing she didn't have any money, I began to get resentments for being the one who payed. I know that's a contradiction, but that's how I felt. I never discussed these feelings with her because I didn't know how to approach it. As a result of it building up, it led to me saying something kind of insensitive to her. And she was the one who was hurt.