I went on an online dating site 6 months ago. I found two guys interesting so I picked one to date and let the other (Bob) go. I basically talked to him less frequently until we weren't talking anymore. It wasn't dramatic at all. Anyway, the first relationship didn't work out. He proposed after a month and I ran like hell.

For a while I focused on work and other things and didn't date at all. Then one day I found the second guy's number (Bob) and called. We went out to lunch. Bob was way over groomed. He ironed his blue jeans, shaves his brows and mustache into perfect shapes with clippers and uses mascara. He said he was 42 but appeared 10 yrs older. Bob was very worried about whether I was gainfully employed and bragged about owning nice cars and his job. He was nice, a little arrogant but I often find that attractive in men.

Anyway we chatted for a few weeks. Bob seemed to be super organized. He goes to bed, works out and eats the same time everyday. He called me the same time almost everyday, etc. We planned a second date put he had to work but called me from the restaurant while eating out with his co-workers that same day. He got back home at 8pm but since it was a weekday he goes bed and works out at a certain time so he wouldn't go out.

Since I don't always have time to go out and it was a lot of trouble to arrange childcare etc so I was a little upset about that but continued to chat with him. He claimed to have dated a lot of women. Whenever we disagreed he compared my response to one of the other women he had a relationship with.

Bob felt if he should be able to tell a woman what to wear. Her feet had to be nice. Then one day he called and asked what parts of my body I shave. I found this an odd question and creepy so I started winding things down. He called and emailed me until I told him why I didn't want to talk to him. He said I was being silly and that everyone has standards. I told him that I was a really laid back kind of person and liked it and that he was way too organized and it wouldn't work out.

He still calls me using different numbers sometimes twice a day. Every morning around 10 am I get a call from an unknown number with no msg. If I answer the person doesn't say anything but I think its him.

Fortunately he has no idea where I live or work. I don't think Bob is dangerous but I wonder why he keeps calling and where I went wrong.

Why does this guy keep calling?