He sounds very rigid. Anyone who will not go out simply because it interferes with his schedule isn't very flexible and if he cannot compromise with somehting so small what would happen if it was a larger, significant issue?
His questions were inapropriate and none of his business after having just met you. I would send him an email clearly stating you have no desire to continue contact. Wish him well in his relationship pursuits. If he continues to contact you, contact the police. This person doesn't sound stable and you don't know if he is capable of tracking you down. Good Luck!