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Originally Posted by MissCharlotte
Yeah--the absolute worst is the first appointment after break. I will walk in and stare at him like he's a stranger. I will not be able to connect. He will chat about general things to help me. He might talk a little about his vacation. Eventually, I begin to thaw and I talk to him slightly. OR I get really mad at him because I need that defense. Ugh.
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This is SO true (hence my summer from hell!). When I read this, I thought...we should have some kind of "reconnecting plan" with our Ts. Like, for me, it would probably feel really reconnecting to play, so we could always play dots or Uno or color mandalas after a break. I bet that would make me feel safe, and like T is still T, and like T and I are still "us". Hmmm.
I think I'm seriously on to something here....
