Hey scotlandskye. I dont think it would be a good idea. It could ruin an already good thing. I had a best friend that I had known for years and years. I was good friends with both him and his wife. We kinda lost contact for a year and when I came back to our town, I found out that him and his wife were divorced. We stayed really good friends then we decided to take it to the intimate level after months of flirting and flirting. I could'nt care about him in the way he wanted. He loved me but I only loved him as a friend. After he I told him that, it hurt him so much. I felt so bad for making him feel that way. By getting intimate with my dear friend cost me a genuine friend. I will always regret that. I loved him. Not only did I lose his friendship I had also lost his ex wife's.