Hello Katie and Welcome to PC! We’re so glad you’re here!
In my opinion of your situation, regardless of his “intentions” if these things hurt you or make you uncomfortable it’s WRONG. I would have absolutely flipped if my husband had done something like that not only in front of my child, but using my child as a tool in his sick game!
As Sabby said, those alarms go off for a reason. We tend to get into trouble when we don’t listen to them. 1 + 1 ALWAYS = 2. Even if he’s not cheating he’s acting inappropriately.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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